Let’s talk honestly. For years I have battled my weight. There are battles that I’ve won, even more that I’ve lost. I certainly lost the war for most of my adult life. When I stepped on the scale this morning, I was down 65 pounds. I am 15-20 pounds from my ultimate goal. Often, I get asked, “How have you done it? How are you losing weight?” I’ve answered that in previous posts, but have something specific related to that on my mind today. What I want to talk to you about today is mind shift.
I LOVE to eat!! I had a Paula Deen type of grandmother whose recipes we still enjoy today. My mom is no slouch in the kitchen. My hubby has some of his favorite things at her table. In addition to that, I don’t really enjoy fruit. I could go the rest of my life and never eat fruit again without shedding a tear. I would rather eat fried chicken, mashed potatoes, bbq, Mexican food, bar food like chips and dip, potato skins, fried cheese, etc. and follow it with a pint of ice cream.
Lots of people live with the misconception that losing weight means giving up all of these type foods. During the last year and a half of weight loss, I have enjoyed many bowls of ice cream and regular trips to Varsity BBQ or El Amigo. The difference now is that I’ve made sure to earn it. I regularly read the back of the package of anything I consume and am armed with the caloric information. If I plan to have my Breyer’s Oreo Ice Cream at bedtime, then I’d better still have 280 calories left that day. If I enjoy Milkshake Monday at Chickfila, then I have to prepare to have 1130 calories available to use.
How do you know how many calories to eat each day? There are easy online tools that you can use. Find a BMR (basal metabolic rate) calculator online. There are plenty of free ones. Your BMR is the amount of calories you burn each day if you did nothing but lie in bed all day. You can use this number as a starting point and then add in physical activity to know how many more calories you have available each day.
My favorite, super simple method is www.myfitnesspal.com. My Fitness Pal is free. You simply tell the site or the iPhone app some basic info… your age, gender, current weight and height. Then you set a goal like “lose 2 lbs per week.” It then calculates your daily calorie goal for you. You then plug in what you eat and it tracks the calories for you. If you workout, you add that in too to EARN more to eat that day.
This method does away with the cycle that comes with eating something that will give you guilt and defeat. If you’ve earned your bowl of ice cream by saving the calories all day or walking for 30 minutes, then victory is yours, not defeat. For me, this is freeing and empowering. The knowledge has been exactly that… EMPOWERING. I earn everything I eat and don’t feel guilty about anything. This practice has changed my life and made my choices much easier to live with.
What choices will you make today?
Love you so much,
Traci



